Claims & Disputes
What we would tell someone buying their first policies
The principles that survive across every line of insurance, from three people who have spent careers on different sides of them.

After seventy-odd articles about deductibles, definitions, exclusions and appeals, the durable principles are fairly few.
Insure the catastrophe, not the inconvenience
The purpose of insurance is to transfer risks you cannot absorb.
A $600 repair is an inconvenience. A $400,000 liability judgment, a house fire, or twenty years of lost income are not.
Which means high deductibles and high limits, rather than the reverse. Most people have it backwards — low deductibles that produce small claims and low limits that leave the catastrophe uninsured.
Limits matter more than deductibles
The deductible is what you pay in a bad but survivable event. The limit is what stands between you and a catastrophic one.
Raising liability limits costs surprisingly little, because severe claims are rare. Raise them.
And buy an umbrella policy if you have anything to protect. It is the cheapest large protection available.
Read the exclusions
The most informative section of any policy, and the one nobody reads.
What is covered is a long list of things that mostly will not happen. What is excluded tells you where you are actually exposed.
For homeowners: flood, earth movement, gradual water damage, mold, sewer backup, code upgrades, business activity.
For health: what is not a covered benefit, and what requires prior authorization.
For disability: the definition of disability, mental health limitations, and the two-year definition change.
An hour with the exclusions when you buy prevents most surprises later.
Disclose everything
Every driver, every business activity, every rental arrangement, every health condition, every prior claim.
The premium saving from omission is small. The consequence — a denied claim, a rescinded policy, no coverage at the moment you needed it — is total.
Where you are unsure whether something matters, disclose it and let the underwriter decide.
Document before you need to
A home inventory with video and photographs, stored outside the house.
Appraisals for valuables, updated.
Photographs of any property before a loss.
Copies of every policy, saved where you can reach them.
All of this takes an afternoon and it is the difference between a settlement based on what you can prove and one based on what you can remember.
Then document during
Every call logged with date, name and reference number. Every conversation confirmed in writing. Every expense receipted. Photographs before any cleanup.
Claims are decided on the file. Build the file.
Do not accept the first no
Denials are positions, not verdicts.
Read the denial letter, identify the specific reason, and address that reason with evidence.
Then escalate methodically: internal appeal, external review for health claims, appraisal for property valuation disputes, the state regulator, and legal advice where the amount justifies it.
Each stage is free or nearly free, and a meaningful share of denials are overturned by people who simply continued.
Do not exaggerate
The risk-reward on adding a few thousand dollars to a claim is extraordinarily poor. The concealment and fraud provision can void the whole claim, not just the added part.
Claim the real loss fully, argue for every legitimate component, and document it thoroughly. That approach produces better outcomes and carries none of the exposure.
Buy the boring products
Level term life rather than complex permanent products, unless a specific permanent need exists.
Adequate liability limits rather than accidental death riders.
A real disability policy rather than a rider on something else.
Complexity in insurance products generally serves the seller. The simple products are cheaper, easier to compare, and easier to understand at claim time.
Get advice that is not paid on the sale
For anything substantial — permanent life insurance, annuities, long-term care, business coverage — an opinion from someone with no commission interest costs little relative to the amounts involved.
It is the single best protection against being sold something unsuitable.
Review it annually
Because coverage set for one life keeps applying to a different one.
Beneficiaries go out of date. Terms expire. Dwelling limits fall behind construction costs. Business activity starts. Children arrive and leave.
An afternoon a year.
And the thing nobody says
The best outcome in insurance is never claiming.
Mitigation, maintenance and careful behavior are cheaper than any policy — and in the current property market, they increasingly determine whether coverage is available at all.
Buy the coverage for the event you cannot prevent. Then do the unglamorous work that makes it less likely.
General information about insurance, not insurance, legal, medical or financial advice. Policy terms and applicable law vary by state and product. Read your own policies and consult licensed professionals about your circumstances.
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